I doubt we're nearly as worried as you are. I probably speak for just about everyone when I say that we deeply appreciate all the work and energy you've put into this. It's certainly frustrating all around, but I can only imagine how frustrated you must be, and I don't think anyone blames you for this situation.
I'm sorry for the troubleshooting message. In retrospect, I can see how it would only add to the stress of the situation, and I should have realized that you'd already have gone through all of the above steps and more. For my part, I'll take a deep breath and wait patiently. Hopefully, it's resolved soon, and I hope you're able to mitigate some of your worry in the meanwhile.